I have been encouraged today by the Lover of our Souls. When I returned home from the
oncologist and wanted time with God, I asked that He would speak to my soul,
something personal and perfect … tell me what He’d like me to hear. I went to Psalm 128, since that is the
next one on my personal reading schedule, and it begins with ‘my theme:’
“Blessed are those who fear the LORD… “ and it ends with an incredible
blessing, that speaks volumes of healing and promise to me: “and may you live to
see your children’s children.”
Personal and perfect!
This has not been a day where peace reigned. I was quite nervous about the upcoming
oncologist appointment; quite overwhelmed with treatment options I’ve been
researching. I don’t know how I’ll
ever make a decision on treatment.
I finally realized that I need to chill a bit, and remember that I know
the All Wise One, the Healer, the Decider, the Revealer of Truth. Okay, that helped… then on to the
doctor.
What can I say?
Dare I hope? I went in with
dread, but came out with hope. He
had no sure answers - yet. The
full CT Scan report is now in my hands, and everything is worded carefully: “cannot rule out subtle mets” “lesion suggesting mets” “irregular
lucency in right post rib, suggesting mets,” “subtle mets in this area cannot
be ruled out.” Four areas of possible cancer mets – two in tissue, two in
bone.
The only way to know for sure is to do the bone biopsy. He ordered it. Bleh. Ouch.
(I also learned that I had a “mild old compression fracture
on my T9 vertebrae” – now was that from the rock climbing fall in my twenties?
Or the inline skates fall in my 40’s? Or something I don’t even
remember???)
The high tumor marker?
The absence of an abdominal tumor?
He’s puzzled with that one.
All my previous symptoms pointed to a huge tumor. I explained that after that high tumor marker test came in, I immediately asked
for people to pray, and they did.
Before anything had changed, I told my family that for once, I couldn’t
wait to have surgery, just so I could be comfortable again. I was very tired of
carrying that “thing” around.
Then the uncomfortable heaviness in my abdomen disappeared. It was gone by the time I went in for the
CT scan. How can that be
explained, except that God answered prayer? The doctor doesn’t know. He said that the there are false positives with the tumor
marker. But after a pause, he added
that he’d never seen a false positive that read as high as mine though. Mine was about 130, the false positives
he’s seen were 40. Normal is about
30. At my request, he finally
ordered that test again. I’m
curious to see if it is lower now that my abdomen feels better.
We also talked about the possibility of colon cancer. Apparently the CT Scan does not do a
good job of catching that. My
markers for that also doubled in the last couple of months. He wasn’t concerned, initially, because
they were still in normal range.
However, since he’s not sure what is going on, he ordered a colonoscopy. Lucky me.
I asked about getting permission for second opinions at
Alternative Centers and City of Hope; but he said no one would see me until we
get something concrete – back to the bone biopsy. Bleh. I really
don’t want that.
The last question of the day. “So what do I do in the meantime?” “Well,” he answered, “It looks like prayer has been
working. Why don’t you keep that
up. It seems like God is the one
who knows what is going on.” (or
something to that effect – and it almost knocked me over to hear him say that –
because I am the one who is always talking to him about God, and giving him
books to read, and telling him that I pray for him. And he’s always the skeptic! Okay – so that made the visit all worthwhile.)
And so I hope that God has begun a healing process, and He
will complete it.
Wait
ReplyDeletecall
cry
pray....wait,
and be still.
love you. Praying feels like battle...but I'm praying this battle with you.
Love reading your blog:) There is always hope:) Just continue to take care of yourself and we will be here for you- most especially, Jesus!
ReplyDeleteLea
Live in joy, pray and cry, wait some more, endure a few medical tests, but most of all continue to live in joy and HOPE!
ReplyDeleteDiana. Wait in the Lord....have the bone biopsy, ouch and I am so sorry for your pain...I had a secons Clavicle bone excision two days ago in a horrid hospital without hope or comfort or kindness...but i made it thru on these words.Blood Of Jesus I place my trust in Thee....i also went straight to mediatate on the beach for eight hours after being discharged ( without pain meds, instruction or being de briefed by a nurse or doctor.They gave me my clothe .alone i got up off the strecher got dressed and left)..i call it my slaughterhouse ordeal..after PR Centro Medico further surgery is not an option..and am waiting without anxiety..... But my markers are in the low numbers....we are in this University of Life, School of Hard Knocks but we stand firm....falter, fall, stand again.thru deslair, pain, anxiety and then hope. All with the contented knowledge and faith that the Joy of the Lord is our strength.....the best treatment option is the one where you can feel strong enough to enjoy your days....regardless of what exact treatment you still rest the Palm of God's Hand.
ReplyDeleteWow and Wow! For some unknown reason, the last paragraph always sticks in my mind. Maybe the Lord is using this in your life to bring about reconciliation in your Dr.'s life. God works in funny and not so funny ways, but I know He will give you the grace to go through this stage. And I pray that you will live to see your children's children...as He has said.
ReplyDeleteDiana, I am praying for you.
<3 Cori
Hi Diana. My mom and I are here reading your blog post, sad, but encouraged by your faith that we share. We love you and are joining you in prayer.
ReplyDelete